How do you get over the fear?

Clover · How do you get over the fear?

I was wondering how you get over the fear when you hear voices? I believe there is nothing to be afraid of, its just when they start talking I panic and tell them to leave me alone.
So, how did you get over the fear of letting them talk to you?

Sage/Debs

Clover, I knew our Owl would be your best informant and helper. Do you like stones & crystals? Both of us love them and use them alot to comfort, heal & sheild/protect.

Clover

Thanks for the information and I guess you are right about just having to face it head on. What makes me panic is I hear more than one at a time and it just freaks me out. By the time I calm down and say okay, one at a time, they're gone.

Debs, I have lots of crystals and stones. I started learning about my native american roots and started getting into the crystals, healings, etc.

My grandmother saw spirits and would talk to them, mostly tell them to go to the light. I saw a couple spirits when I was young (preteen), and of course freaked. But since I started learning about the native american culture, that's when I started noticing things and hearing voices. It's just a lot to deal with when you're not sure how you should handle it, I guess.

Sage/Debs

Keep sharing, if you're comfortable. My guides "speak" to me all the time. At nite there are times I swear I hear a party of voices but it's just the other side coming thru. Use your sheilding stones. I have one more suggestion....I went to Bed Bath & Beyond and bought one of those netting things that hangs from the ceiling and surrounds the bed all the way to the floor. (I'll try to find the pic) When I go to bed, I choose my stones for my needs that nite and climb into my already "sheilded" bed, close the netting and cuddle down ready to Reiki myself and oftimes others. The material's tangible sheild is oftimes very helpful for folks trying to imagine a sheild and feeling they aren't "getting it".

Haywire

Just yesterday my friend asked me who I was talking to, and I told her my guides...I didn't realize I spoke to them in front of other people. Great idea about the net Debs. That would help to see the shield instead of trying to imagine it.

Sage/Debs

Oh gosh, I speak outloud to mine all the time, especially to say thank you.

BooBoo

herding cats

I don't really hear voices. I hear things like music, flutes, chimes, knocks, etc...... I often get sudden words or thoughts out of nowhere. I think the scariest for myself is that I see movement and shadows out of the corner of my eye alot and it always startles me. I also will get "brushed" by passing or playful spirits.

I think Owl has the right idea, shielding and grounding and facing it head on......

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BooBoo

Often at night I will hear groups of people talking. And also joyful music and singing. Sometimes I've asked the people talking to tone it down a bit......and they usually do. I've never felt a threat from it, though.

Have heard knocks only a couple of times and that is a bit unnerving. Never figured that one out.

Movement and a glimpse of a figure, I am very used to. That started for me when I was very young and I recognize it as my Guide. I've also seen a horse that way and later realized it was a horse we once owned that was waiting for our mare, who passed a couple of days later. That was a little strange, but I felt no threat from that either.

I've also caught a glimpse of my dad's face in a window once.....and that was startling, but felt good too........

As for the "brushing" of Spirit.......Not quite that. A couple of times I experienced a familiar "nose bonk" on the back of my leg. It was my special girl, Sheena, after she passed, getting my attention the way she always used to.

My Guide has "spoken" to me a few times, just in my right ear. It's a very loving male voice that I have come to recognize. But usually he speaks to me straight into my mind.........and usually while I'm doing a meditation while I'm taking a shower. And it never happens unless I ask.

Reading back on all of this..........(and I haven't included everything!) It sounds like a lot. I'm not sure why so much has happened to me, except that it all started when I was young? And I've been learning how to surround myself with White Light, so the experiences tend to be all positive?

I'm not sure........

And yes, I have had a negative experience and learned from that - that We ARE in CONTROL! Major learning experience.

herding cats

Hey there booboo q13

....I feel like yogi bear q27

The brushing, over the years it often has been departed pets, in fact once it was something hit the back of my knees and they gave out, I hollered "knock it off Deva" and then realized I was talking to a dog who wasn't with me anymore but it was such a classic move of hers

Wind blowing my hair when there is no wind is one I get, along with tickling, feather type touch on my face......

The knocks/noises don't bother me anymore...in fact I am so used to it the family just laughs and says I'm hearing things again..

The corner of the eye movement and shadows are always eerie to me and happen between dusk and dawn.........I had a shadow person follow me for years from childhood until late teens and he'd just stand in my doorway late at night and I'd wake and see him......I never got used to it and so that unsettled feeling still hits me like a wall.

The voices I seem to not hear anymore......when I was younger I did but I learned to block and created some pretty sturdy walls, I have slowly begun to take down a few of them but it is a slow proccess and my comfort level seems to be the deciding factor.......if it makes me jump it stays OUT q51

..... with kids and pets I do not need anything else giving me regular heart palpitations

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BooBoo

"Herding Cats"..........The Yogi Bear thing cracked me up. Believe it or not, my nickname is TOTALLY unrelated, so that threw me for loop! q21

I bet you a button that the "corner of the eye" shadow figure has been Your GUIDE all along! That is how I started seeing "him"......and then one night he showed himself fully because of a great need I was having at the time. The only other times I've seen him fully has been through meditation...... otherwise, all he shows me are those peripheral views of him.

LOVE the description you gave of your "ADC" from Deva. That was great!

herding cats

I shall try to make contact.....as you are probably correct with my guide (a small army of spirits I am sure

) the sheer number of near death experiences I have had convinced me long ago someone has my back

and they seriously deserve major overtime pay..... q27

BooBoo

Sometime you should share the Near Death Experinces..............if you don't mind?

Sage/Debs

I have no idea why this was brought up to me this morning but seeing as it was, I don't believe in coincidence...someone must need these words..so here you go Dear, whomever you are.